Question # 10 : Can I hope for solace in my current marriage?
Question — I am a Wood Monkey and my husband a Wood Rat. I understand that this is a good match and yet we have had many marital problems in the past... Can I hope for solace in my current marriage with this man? (Judith C., USA).
Answer — It's not possible for me to say anything with accuracy about your love life and present marriage without having your birth time and your husband's. However, it seems to me at first glance that things will smooth themselves out gradually for you, and that your current marriage can bring you great joys.
The presence of problems is not really a problem since life is no other thing than a continual problem-solving process. What's important is your attitude toward your problems. If you're decided to cope with them in a positive and aggressive manner, then they will not pose as catastrophes but as challenges.
Remember: happiness — especially marital happiness — is not manna from heaven, but a reward to be won. So never despair, and work earnestly for this prize. All the best!
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